::LOVE IS NOT A FEELING::

If you hear this words I am sure you will disagree with it. Why is it not a feeling? I can feel it, my body tingles when i see him or her looking or talking to me. Well this are the physiological manifestations when one has the sensation of "falling in love". People usually falls for a person because that person satisfies the one on their lists.
We usually fall in love with the person's appearance, with the way she/he walks, the way he/she talks. Sometimes we impute to our object of love some mystic illusion, ideal qualities and the more we get to know the person the less we fall for him or her. That's when the feeling of love disappears even faster than it appeared.
Love is not a feeling, love is a decision you make and continue to make in order to create an experience that is described as love. Love is an action that if you don't use it you lose it. Love is like any communication, if you never send it out, you won’t get a return. Love is something you give to others not something you feel because something happens to you.
Most teens says they fall in love with that person because of this and that. Because she is pretty, nice, smart, but when that person fails to show the person that thought she was then you will change your mind about that person. And that is not love.
Love is maybe the most complicated word to describe in human history. Many will define it, some are right and most of the time they define it wrong. They say love hurts, love is painful, love is blind. This are the wrong viewpoints of human beings about love. Hurt, pain are not from love its from the people doing it.
Love is a probably the single most universally desired human quality that exist on this planet. Love is not something you can buy or barter, it is not taught at school, it doesn’t matter how rich you are, your IQ, race, creed, religion, social economic status or who you know. Remember love is not a feeling; love is a decision!